Ok, so my question to you is, "Does it really matter"?
I feel as long as EA gives us this option, then I can rest a lil better knowing they're heading in the right direction and atleast trying. As its been stated before, we have asked for this for over 7 years now along with getting wins online when our opponents quit games on us and guess what? They stumbled onto that by accident lol!
But I understand where you're coming from, I just want to stop seeing the 1 step forward 3 steps back with features and things that should be in the game.