1. You can't change the cam online...I agree that sucks.
2. Not sure whats going on with the meter for you but if you were challenged maybe the guy who challenged you had some other setting on for the pitching meter.
3. Your opponent probably knows your pitch location due to that stupid azz "Guess Pitch ON" setting. I'd stay away from guys who use that..Its pretty gay IMO...That and fast"gay"play
4. Quick menus are not available online..That sucks as well...You have to pause the game and make adjustments