Yeah, if people don't like the game but continue to buy, it is their fault.
However, I personally have been enjoying the hell out of 09. I understand the bugs are bad, but I have taken my time and looked past them. 09 is a very solid game of football and it will only get better after the patch.
I say fight on EA. I started this gaming season out disappointed and pissed off, but now the game is growing on me.