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This time of year- random 3am thought

Posted on November 26, 2008 at 05:54 AM.

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Since 2006, this time of year I really want to see pass as soon as possible. Dont get me wrong, I love my family and friends. It's just different since my bestfriend passed away about a week after Thanksgiving. I never thought that it would really get to me but the subtle things I catch myself thinking about it; Chris Farley, The Doors, BMX bikes are just some of the things that bring it back up. For some reason I dont really talk about it to my friends back home who knew him too, I just prefer to ignore it and make my friends laugh and have fun.

Comments

# 1 matt8204 @ Nov 26

I feel you, man. But I think the best way to celebrate your friend's memory is to continue to enjoy all aspects of your life, including the holidays. I know it's a difficult time of year when you've lost someone special, but I think they'd want you to keep living the same way and not go into a shell. Your loved ones want to see you happy, not down in the dumps. Hang in there. Always honor the memory of those you love who are no longer with you, but always try to look towards the future with a positive and upbeat outlook. Life goes on.

# 2 avrbas @ Nov 27

Thanks for the post, I appreciate it. It's still weird since I knew him from 2nd grade up until 2006 and no one really thinks anyone will be leaving/passing away.. somehow our group managed to make it to graduate from high school and into college without anyone hurt.